Anxiety Therapy
When you're used to holding everything together, admitting you're overwhelmed can be the hardest part.
You may look like you have everything together while privately wondering why keeping it all together feels so exhausting.
Maybe you're juggling a career, relationships, parenting, and everyone else's needs while constantly questioning whether you're doing enough. Or you're entering a new phase of life, navigating divorce, dating again, changing careers, or trying to figure out what you actually want when you're used to being the person who has the answers.
Anxiety doesn't always look like panic. Sometimes it looks like overthinking every decision, never really relaxing, constantly planning what's next, or feeling like you're falling behind no matter how much you accomplish.
When "Doing It All" Starts Wearing You Down
It's easy to become so accustomed to stress that you don't realize how much of it you're carrying.
You may be successful, capable, and the person everyone relies on, and still feel internally disorganized, anxious, lonely, or completely depleted. You might struggle to slow down without feeling guilty, second-guess decisions you've already made, or find yourself repeating patterns in relationships that you understand logically but still can't seem to change.
Maybe you've spent years measuring yourself against an invisible standard of what a good parent, partner, professional, daughter, son, or friend is supposed to look like.
Eventually, something has to give.
You don't need a diagnosed anxiety disorder to recognize that the way you've been operating isn't working anymore.
Anxiety Can Show Up in More Ways Than You Think
I often work with high-achieving adults and overwhelmed moms who are used to being the person everyone else relies on, even when they're quietly struggling themselves.
Sometimes anxiety is the obvious problem. Other times, it's underneath the patterns that keep repeating in your work, relationships, and everyday life.
Dating anxiety or uncertainty after divorce
Major career or life decisions
Fear of disappointing other people
Feeling overwhelmed by everything you're responsible for
Knowing a pattern isn't working but struggling to change it
You may be dealing with:
Constant overthinking and second-guessing
Perfectionism and unrealistic expectations of yourself
Difficulty relaxing or being present
Work-life imbalance and burnout
Parenting or relationship stress
Therapy That Goes Beyond "Just Relax"
Telling an anxious person to relax is rarely helpful.
My approach is less about handing you a list of generic coping strategies and more about understanding why certain situations, relationships, or expectations affect you the way they do.
We'll look at what's happening now, but we’ll also explore your upbringing, early relationships, significant life experiences, and the expectations you've learned to place on yourself. Through curious, direct conversations, we'll start connecting the dots between what you've experienced and the patterns you're living with today.
The goal isn't to eliminate every stressful moment from your life. It's to help you understand yourself well enough that anxiety doesn't get to make every decision for you.
What Working Together Can Look Like
Therapy with me is casual, collaborative, and thought-provoking. I'm not interested in forcing you into a rigid treatment plan or making every conversation feel overly clinical.
Depending on what you're experiencing, our work may focus on understanding relationship patterns, challenging perfectionism, setting boundaries, making difficult decisions, managing overwhelm, or changing the beliefs and behaviors that keep pulling you back into the same cycle.
I've worked with adults navigating anxiety, relationships, careers, parenting, and major life changes since 2005. My job isn't to tell you how to live your life. It's to ask the questions that help you understand why you're living it the way you are, and what you might want to do differently.
But Do I Really Need Therapy for This?
Maybe you wouldn't describe yourself as "anxious," but you know that you're exhausted from thinking about everything all the time. Maybe you’re recognizing that you can't make a decision without analyzing every possible outcome or that you're successful on paper but can't shake the feeling that you should be doing more.
Therapy isn't reserved for people with an anxiety diagnosis. Sometimes it's where you finally get to look at the patterns, expectations, and pressures that have become so normal you stopped questioning them.
If something feels off, that's enough reason to get curious about it.
You Don't Have to Keep Running on Overwhelm
If anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, or the pressure to keep everything together is starting to affect your relationships or the way you feel about yourself, we can start there.
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